There’s a reason young men are listening to the manosphere. And it’s not because they’re all toxic. In this episode, I respond to the overwhelming reaction to Part 1 - and go deeper into what’s really going on. The manosphere isn’t right. But it’s not completely wrong [Read more]
I watched the deeply disturbing Louis Theroux documentary “Inside the Manosphere” recently and it was painful to sit through. It highlighted exactly what authentic masculinity is not. The wounded, insecure and narcissistic men it featured depicted a destructive, distorted and damaged picture of masculinity. They equated manhood [Read more]
We are raising a generation of boys without fathers at a time when masculinity itself is in crisis. Where does that leave us as a society? In this episode I sit down with George Matsheke, founder of Marvin, to talk honestly about the challenges men are facing [Read more]
Narcissistic abuse isn’t always loud. It can be the quiet erosion of who you are – the slow rewriting of your story until you barely recognize yourself. In this episode of Force For Good, I speak with author and life-coach Kirsten Alexander about the insidious nature of [Read more]
We live in an age where a few seconds of video can define a person’s entire reputation. Where context disappears, and soundbites become weapons. Charlie Kirk’s death was more than an American tragedy, it was a mirror held up to all of us. It revealed how quickly [Read more]
I sit down with GBV ambassador Cynthia Dinalane, a true hero from Tembisa who turned her own home into a shelter for abused women and children. With no external funding, she has rehabilitated over 120 women, giving them skills, dignity, and a future. Cynthia shares raw, unfiltered [Read more]
At the end of your life, what will people say about you? Did you live passively, making no real difference? Did you live destructively, leaving others worse off? Or did you live as a force for good, leaving the world better than you found it? If you’ve [Read more]
In this episode, sit down with my good friend and serial entrepreneur Steve Carver to talk about one of the biggest challenges facing South Africa, and how to solve it. We go deep into the need to shift from a “job” mindset to a “livelihood” mindset, how [Read more]
The most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with yourself. In this episode, I sit down with registered counsellor and mental health advocate Senzekile Shongwe, whose work is transforming how we understand and care for our mind, and helping heal what we didn’t even realise [Read more]
In this powerful episode, I sit down with Pastor Chris Mathebula — a man whose journey from street child to national leader is nothing short of miraculous. Forced to survive on the streets from a young age, Pastor Chris’s life was marked by hardship, rejection, and extreme [Read more]
Too many of us are living by someone else’s script—fitting in, toeing the line, and slowly losing touch with who we really are. We let the world define us through roles, labels, and expectations, and end up living lives that look fine on the outside but feel [Read more]
Khalil Osiris is a man who’s walked through fire. After spending a gruelling 20 years in prison, he emerged transformed and hungry to make an impact. Having earned his bachelor’s and master’s degrees while behind bars, he went on to become a respected educator, speaker, and justice [Read more]
I’ve always believed that if we can heal men, we can heal the world. In this episode, I sit down with fellow warrior for men’s mental health, Thulani Grenville-Grey. Thulani is not only a TRC veteran but a man who’s spent years walking alongside other men in [Read more]
In this episode, I take a brutally honest look at a fictional series that’s hit a nerve across the globe - 'Adolescence'. What unfolds in the story is tragic, but what it reveals about the world our boys are growing up in is even more alarming. This [Read more]
In this raw and honest conversation, former pro footballer Silver Shabalala opens up about his journey from the streets of Soweto to the national spotlight — and the personal cost that came with it. From sudden fame and fast money to fathering nine children and falling into [Read more]